Manifest Destiny
Broderick Hicks
So which one are you asking to marry you? The skankazoid, or the other skankazoid?
They have names man. They'e people too ya know.
So which one are you asking to marry you? The skankazoid, or the other skankazoid?
I agree with the bolded and don't think PhDeacs is always the case. My dad and I have a good relationship, he's very involved in my life, and my parents paid for the wedding. It just wasn't really a tradition that anyone in my family feels strongly about. Actually, HTTD is probably the one that felt most inclined to do it but I told him not to.
That doesn't mean it was inappropriate, just that you didn't want him to do it. Big difference in my opinion.
They have names man. They'e people too ya know.
I've always gotten along well with my FIL so I wasn't nervous. But around the time when I wanted to propose, there wasn't a good chance to see him in person, so I called him up, knowing that neither of us are big phone talkers. The call was literally less than a minute. I looked down after we hung up and it was something like a 51 second call. But he was cool with it.
I don't think it would have been inappropriate, just not really our style. Like I said, it just isn't something my dad was looking for or expected or anyone cared about. I also kind of liked that we were able to surprise my parents (as much as you can surprise people who already thought you were engaged). My parents decided to get married when they did because they wanted to do the peace corps together - they just aren't really traditional.
lol, RD that's terrible. 'shes a handful'... i wonder where she got that from!
Im actually thinking about doing this next month. Pretty nervous about it but I think her Dad will try to be super cool and shotgun a beer or something which could be fun. Here goes nothin.
I got a lecture on how we should wait for 2 years before getting married. (We'd been dating for 5). I wasn't sure if I was going to get permission, so stated it as a fact and asked for his blessing. Got it after a good hour of getting grilled.
My FIL is the stereotypical ball-busting 30-year NYC firefighter. He retired a few months after 9/11 and moved to Florida, and about that time I was in my second year of law school in NC, so I called him on the phone. I got to the point pretty quick, and without missing a beat he launched into "You sorry sack of shit, you have the nerve to ask me for my daughter's hand in marriage and you don't even have the balls to get down here and ask me in person? Fuck you, asshole. The answer is fuck no." Then he hung up. About 30 seconds later he called back hysterically laughing while her mom was screaming at him for being a such a douchebag and not taking anything seriously.