Based on this data, let's find out what you personally believe: what choices are you making for your family?
First of all: none of your damn business.
Second: it doesn't matter, because not all families are like my family. Government policy isn't, or shouldn't be, about requiring everyone to make the same narrow set of lifestyle choices in order to stay out of poverty. It also isn't, or shouldn't be, about punishing people who fail to make the "right" choices, or who make the "right" choices and still end up in a bad situation due to the vicissitudes of life, or who try to make the "right" choices but are restricted from doing so because of structural issues in the economy. It should be about creating the most prosperity for the greatest number of people, to the extent possible without significantly hampering positive economic activity. Where to strike that balance is obviously a legitimate subject of vehement political debate, as it should be.
Third: I don't quote trolls, because I enjoy denying you the dopamine rush of seeing that alert come up on your phone. Have a nice day, troll.