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Retirement - where and what to consider?

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Tommy Elrod
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So I know a few of you are already in that spot, and more have hit 50 and are starting to contemplate a few years down the line in terms of states/locations for retirement. I'm in the contemplation stage, thinking maybe I can remote work at some point for another decade, then cash in my chips. Ideally, I could remote work where I wish to retire, and thus be all set up and ready when that day comes.

I may yet end up in Texas with its lack of income tax, etc, but I've been here long enough, frankly. I miss having actual seasons of the year, no longer enjoy the simmering summers, and DFW in particular has just turned into about 5 million square miles of concrete. If I do stay in the state, it won't be here-- maybe further east toward Louisiana or slightly west of Ft. Worth where there is some actual topography. And in those spots, one could easily get a little more bang for the buck too-- sell the overvalued DFW property and buy something in the sticks kind of idea.

The Carolinas are tempting, but it seems like NC is becoming a bit too full in recent years, with SC possibly following soon. NC (RDU area) seems to have become what Atlanta was 20 years ago, and what DC was before that). Really enjoy the idea of eastern TN somewhere where I can be not necessarily in the mountains, but among them-- good tax rates too. I don't know much about northern Alabama or Mississippi, though I've seen people settling there. I put those places in the same spot as southern Kentucky-- maybe something to look at closer.

OK, KS, MO, and AR would all give me more seasonal weather, but the tax rates are up there-- perhaps offset a bit by the cost of property. There are desirable places to live in all those states (believe it or not), but not to the extent of a Carolina or TN retreat, IMO. The midwestern weather can just be brutal too, with all the heat of Texas in some years and the usual cold winters. I don't think I'd be considering any of those states if I didn't have some roots in them, and the resulting affinity that often comes from that. Yet they are unlikely landing spots.

I'm wondering if any of you have started your retirement and/or are close to it, what factors you looked at, and what you ultimately decided and why. Taxes are not a small part of my equation, but different states tax differently. Some tax income but not certain kinds of retirement (like military or social security). Affordable real estate is another-- buy somewhere that isn't overvalued, which can offset tax considerations. People another-- too many GD people in DFW. Don't need a small town, but 30-50k size is acceptable.

I welcome any factors that I may not have considered, or may need to consider more. Also, would be curious as to how inflation has affected those who are already retired.
 
So I know a few of you are already in that spot, and more have hit 50 and are starting to contemplate a few years down the line in terms of states/locations for retirement. I'm in the contemplation stage, thinking maybe I can remote work at some point for another decade, then cash in my chips. Ideally, I could remote work where I wish to retire, and thus be all set up and ready when that day comes.

I may yet end up in Texas with its lack of income tax, etc, but I've been here long enough, frankly. I miss having actual seasons of the year, no longer enjoy the simmering summers, and DFW in particular has just turned into about 5 million square miles of concrete. If I do stay in the state, it won't be here-- maybe further east toward Louisiana or slightly west of Ft. Worth where there is some actual topography. And in those spots, one could easily get a little more bang for the buck too-- sell the overvalued DFW property and buy something in the sticks kind of idea.

The Carolinas are tempting, but it seems like NC is becoming a bit too full in recent years, with SC possibly following soon. NC (RDU area) seems to have become what Atlanta was 20 years ago, and what DC was before that). Really enjoy the idea of eastern TN somewhere where I can be not necessarily in the mountains, but among them-- good tax rates too. I don't know much about northern Alabama or Mississippi, though I've seen people settling there. I put those places in the same spot as southern Kentucky-- maybe something to look at closer.

OK, KS, MO, and AR would all give me more seasonal weather, but the tax rates are up there-- perhaps offset a bit by the cost of property. There are desirable places to live in all those states (believe it or not), but not to the extent of a Carolina or TN retreat, IMO. The midwestern weather can just be brutal too, with all the heat of Texas in some years and the usual cold winters. I don't think I'd be considering any of those states if I didn't have some roots in them, and the resulting affinity that often comes from that. Yet they are unlikely landing spots.

I'm wondering if any of you have started your retirement and/or are close to it, what factors you looked at, and what you ultimately decided and why. Taxes are not a small part of my equation, but different states tax differently. Some tax income but not certain kinds of retirement (like military or social security). Affordable real estate is another-- buy somewhere that isn't overvalued, which can offset tax considerations. People another-- too many GD people in DFW. Don't need a small town, but 30-50k size is acceptable.

I welcome any factors that I may not have considered, or may need to consider more. Also, would be curious as to how inflation has affected those who are already retired.
When you get to retirement age, you're going to have a lot more trips to the doctor - particularly specialists. If you're in a small city with just one hospital and not much competition, you may find yourself having to travel for some specialties. All of that gets tougher if you need someone to give you a ride.
 
Planning to retire to Lake James. Good weather and we like the area. There is a hospital 20 minutes away and specialists in Charlotte. Family is all in the SE. However, we are expecting both of our kids to move out west so it is always possible that we would consider moving somewhere on that side of the country.
 
When you get to retirement age, you're going to have a lot more trips to the doctor - particularly specialists. If you're in a small city with just one hospital and not much competition, you may find yourself having to travel for some specialties. All of that gets tougher if you need someone to give you a ride.

This is key. My mom retired to Seabrook Island (which was great for us) but when she started getting older and needing to go to the doctor (or when her husband needed an ambulance) the drive and not being near family became a big concern.

She ended up moving to Atlanta to be near my sister.
 
I'm considering Winston. Not overcrowded, relatively cheap, get Wake Sports as a hobby, and presumably easy enough to meet new folks through the locals on the boards.

We came here 15 years ago for work. The more I consider options, the more I’m inclined to just stay here and travel to other places to enjoy them. Winston is a decent small city, plenty of arts, places to enjoy, and Wake. Healthcare is abundant.

When to retire is a challenge. If only I knew how long we’d live and what problems we’ll face.
 
When to retire is a challenge. If only I knew how long we’d live and what problems we’ll face.
just highlights how wild the continued shift toward privately-funded retirement is

even crazier when a lot of it has to do with luck re: stock market cycles


one thing on ELC's list that I don't see mentioned is kids or other family: folks you want to be near (or far from)
 
just highlights how wild the continued shift toward privately-funded retirement is

even crazier when a lot of it has to do with luck re: stock market cycles


one thing on ELC's list that I don't see mentioned is kids or other family: folks you want to be near (or far from)
AMC and I both mentioned our kids.

My kids are both pretty tied to living in the South, my daughter especially. So I’ll move if I have to.
 
Our plan is to retire in place. Only other possibility would be to move closer to our kids at some point (one in Charleston, one in Charlotte). My mother in law is still alive and we won't be going anywhere as long as she is around.
It would be difficult to leave here, though - we have a huge circle of friends and a well established life here. I guess when we get a good bit older and aren't as active - and I don't care about the golf club as much, it would be easier to move. I will probably be dead before then anyway...
 
Staying near your social circle is pretty important imo. Social isolation is a big problem among people 70+ (especially as they get health and mobility issues) and is correlated with a lot of poor outcomes.
 
Staying near your social circle is pretty important imo. Social isolation is a big problem among people 70+ (especially as they get health and mobility issues) and is correlated with a lot of poor outcomes.

Seems like retirement/age restricted communities are a good option? Just get a huge supply of Valtrex and head for the Villages.
 
Our plan is to retire in place. Only other possibility would be to move closer to our kids at some point (one in Charleston, one in Charlotte). My mother in law is still alive and we won't be going anywhere as long as she is around.
It would be difficult to leave here, though - we have a huge circle of friends and a well established life here. I guess when we get a good bit older and aren't as active - and I don't care about the golf club as much, it would be easier to move. I will probably be dead before then anyway...
This is us. We live in a rural area, but can be at the beach or Raleigh in an hour or two, W-S and Charlotte in 3 hrs., and the mountains in 4. As for living in a city with lots more things to do, as the old trope goes, regardless of where people live, they have about 3 places where they go on the reg.
 
Anyone else here already or considering becoming an ex-pat? I’m still decades away, so I haven’t really researched it much, not to mention a lot can change over that period. I’m only seriously considering the Western Hemisphere. Warm weather a must.
 
Anyone else here already or considering becoming an ex-pat? I’m still decades away, so I haven’t really researched it much, not to mention a lot can change over that period. I’m only seriously considering the Western Hemisphere. Warm weather a must.
A lot of retirement age Americans were moving to Portugal when I was there, especially from California. Cost of living, weather, health care options, were all major factors. EU citizenship was also pretty easy to get, but that may have changed. I have been seeing a lot more articles about it recently as well.
 
We were just talking to friends and they are looking into Portugal. Don't really see that happening for us with three kids.
 
The doctor thing is a big factor. I think a college town with a medical school has a lot to offer.

Charlottesville, Athens, Winston, Etc.

You’ll have good medical options and built in sports and entertainment.
 
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