Rev-- how do you plan to handle the inevitable time when your daughter gets old enough to ask why Santa doesn't come to visit her when he visits the rest of her friends? I'd think it would be really hard to avoid things like Santa crafts in school or people asking her what she was asking Santa to bring.
Good and honest question, happy to respond.
Not sure of the exact conversation because we're not close yet. But Muslim/Jewish/Hindu/Buddhist families seem to be okay without Santa coming to visit. Probably talk about the many ways that people celebrate- some people don't celebrate Christmas at all, some do but don't focus much on baby Jesus, and I guess we'll be with Ricky Bobby, putting lots of emphasis on Jesus, like Ricky Bobby, and not as much on Santa. Many more people know/share the story of Santa than the story of Jesus' birth. And I think if we focus on that as the starting point for what Christmas is about, things such as giving to those in need and giving gifts of love instead of getting tube socks from Grandma (never happened, but an example), will come naturally. I'm more concerned about the beginning of the Christmas story than the end.
People are reading way more into this than I'm saying. I have zero problems with Santa, none. My issue is the selfish/individualistic/comsumeristic/anti-Gospel/materialistic agenda that goes along with Santa. In my opinion, and please understand that I'm not saying that it needs to be anyone else's opinion, Christmas morning isn't about opening presents. If Santa doesn't go hand in hand with a Toys R Us catalog, then I'm happy to have him. I realize this is a minority position, I know it's different, maybe even radical. But I believe that Jesus was a radical, that he didn't go with the status quo if the status quo was preventing us from more fully reaching the dream of God. And as I see it, commercial Santa is turning the dream into a nightmare. Perhaps some of you see it differently, and that really is okay. I'm just trying to live an authentic and consistent faith. As I've said before, for me to have an authentic and consistent faith, I can't reconcile Christmas' focus being on shopping/buying/opening presents. But if you can, then great.