DistrictDeacon
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The hell is "emotional cheating"?
Cyber sex.
The hell is "emotional cheating"?
attaching oneself to another person emotionally. If intimacy can be broken up into physical, emotional, and commitment, it's that middle section. If a woman (or man) is turning to another man to fulfill her need for emotional intimacy - for support, security, etc. - if the other man is the one she really relies and depends on to be there for her - she'll form a real attachment that undercuts whatever relationship she may happen to be in.
I've been cheated on. Physical is worse than emotional because you feel all dirty. I got back with the chick afterwards, though. Then hooked up with a way hotter girl right in front of her during spring break.
That, my friends, is what we call the "long con."
Also gotta remember that a lot of women cheat because their man won't pee on them.
Ladies always looking for that BBD. Bigger, better deal. Bigger, better dick.
I just don't get the psychology of this. If I was with a dude and was tempted to cheat..I'd just call/talk to the bf and end it. It's not that hard people. Basically I don't need to stroke my ego by reminding myself I can get multiple guys. That's all this is. People enjoy the chase and being wanted by multiple people. If I wanted to remind myself of that fact, I'd stay single and do what I want every weekend. If you aren't mature enough to realize this, you aren't mature enough to be in a relationship and put someones emotions at risk. Stay single for the sake of the opposite gender.
A few of my guy friends cheat all the time, but it is very evident to me how crappy they feel about themselves at the core. It is not attractive and it will never get you what you want.
you rang?
In other words, emotional cheating is what happens about a week or two before physical cheating.
Cyber sex.
I just don't get the psychology of this. If I was with a dude and was tempted to cheat..I'd just call/talk to the bf and end it. It's not that hard people. Basically I don't need to stroke my ego by reminding myself I can get multiple guys. That's all this is. People enjoy the chase and being wanted by multiple people. If I wanted to remind myself of that fact, I'd stay single and do what I want every weekend. If you aren't mature enough to realize this, you aren't mature enough to be in a relationship and put someones emotions at risk. Stay single for the sake of the opposite gender.
A few of my guy friends cheat all the time, but it is very evident to me how crappy they feel about themselves at the core. It is not attractive and it will never get you what you want.
This is cheating? What if someone just likes taking nude pictures combined with exhibisionism?
Emotional intimacy? Can that not be fulfilled with friendship? Some of my best friends are guys.
Emotional intimacy? Can that not be fulfilled with friendship? Some of my best friends are guys.
These best guy friends? Would they hook up with you if you were interested?