I got a lecture on how we should wait for 2 years before getting married. (We'd been dating for 5). I wasn't sure if I was going to get permission, so stated it as a fact and asked for his blessing. Got it after a good hour of getting grilled.
Oh, that sounds awful. If you both were a reasonable age to get married and were planning to support yourselves financially, the parents should have backed off of the lecturing. No place for that!