Good Example:
Female friend since HS is an exec for Co-Cola here in the A. She prolly makes 150k+ a year. She had her first baby girl 2 years ago. Husband has some sort of corny finance job also so they do pretty well. As such they got an AZN au pair so moms could go back to work (she is a super Type A career type, presumably like the dwarf bride mentioned hereinabove). The whole fam plus the au pair comes out to my fam's lake house one weekend. Erebody but au pair comes out on the boat, we roll out on the lake only about 10 mins from house. Then we take the baby in her lil baby life jacket out to the back of the boat, sit her down on the ski deck and put her feet in the warm water. Baby goes B-A-N-A-N-A-S like screaming bloody murder.
Mom and dad cannot get baby to calm down AT ALL, to the point where we have to come back in. 10 min boat ride back baby is still screaming while mom and dad are passing her back and forth like a hot potato. We get back to dock where AZN au pair is laying out, and as soon as we get off boat au pair realizes baby is going nuts, takes her from mom and BOOM baby is quiet and happy immediately. Like you flipped a switch.
The look on my friend's face was one of total defeat as she realized that she was really not that kids mom, and that she was paying someone to be the kids mom. She was just super fucking bummed the rest of the weekend. Its 'decisions' like that where you are unprepared for the emotional consequences no matter how much thought you put in beforehand.