Until you recognize the prevalence of racial bias, and how it makes the monumental task of breaking the cycle even greater, then we're at an impasse.
Two examples of racial bias:
1. The systematic destruction of black voting power though the use of gerrymandering and voting rules and restrictions.
2. Look at local public school buildings in Winston-Salem. Compare the predominately white schools with the predominately minority schools.
P.S. It is quite interesting that you chose to use the term "get out of jail free" to describe racial bias.
Wasn't one of the justifications for gerrymandering to get more black representation in Congress?
School vouchers to give everyone a shot a good schools. I am sure we can agree on this.