To be fair, jhmd works hard and I believe owns a businesses and busts his ass. So did his parents, IIRC.
I think I know how he feels: I have busted my ass my whole life working long hours and weekends making chicken salad out of chicken shit. I get it. I get hard work and I own a small biz now and I work 12 and 14 hour days 7 days a week.
My issue with his position on this is that he has let his resentment of the poor go to his head wrt to the allocation of tax dollars to fund entitlements. It has clouded his judgment and he is buying into snake oil schemes to make the problem go away.
While I appreciate the olive branch and the unmerited praise (in my case, not that of my parents, who did put their shoulder to the wheel), the foundation of anything we do has to be based in a fundamental assumption that people are good and capable. I genuinely believe that a system that numbs the pain of self-destructive decisions is neglect benign in intent and malicious in impact. If we continue to treat people as worthy only of pity and the bare minimum needed to stave off death, then I believe we will reap what we sew: and that ain't good enough, is it?
What's the point of meeting someone's needs but not helping them reach their potential? We don't have to reinvent the wheel: the building blocks of personal success are well known and have an established track record (if you don't believe me, I ask you to return to the lessons and expectations you have for your own children, and compare them to those our policies ask---genuinely and with consequence---of people currently in need). We're not talking about cold fusion in a jar; we're talking about basic, controllable steps individuals can take to not disqualify themselves from a better life. You don't need "privilege" to not get pregnant, or finish high school (people who aren't white graduate from high school every day). You need someone in your life who cares about you enough to stay on you so you choose to stay on the right path. The minute we drop the expectation that people not quit on themselves (by quitting on them first), we're not treating them as equals. The fixation with privilege (a fact no one has disputed in the abstract, only in its utility towards solutions for other people's challenges) is a step away from answers (the subject of this thread).
I don't get how not quitting on people's ability to keep themselves in the game amounts to resentment. I also don't understand how some people can be absolutely sure that their point of view has a monopoly on compassion and genuine concern. This problem is big enough for more than one solution.