Most outlets have just said something like "how horrible if true" (not saying that this is the best way to respond, just showing what most objective reporting sources are saying) and here is what Tomahawk Nation said in their article on the topic:
This statement is not a good look for TPD. But, it might actually be realistic advice if the evidence was very weak. The unfortunate reality is that in an era of social media, the alleged victim's life will indeed be turned upside down if a case were to happen, even though the mainstream media will likely not identify her. And if the probability of a conviction (or even a charge) is quite low for whatever reason, the alleged victim would have a choice to make. Of course, this is assuming the detective actually said this to the family.
It's also important to note that Winston was in no way a celebrity at the time of the alleged statement (early January).
The family also reportedly complained that the TPD refused to collect Winston's DNA, interview his roommate, etc. And they are unhappy that Winston's attorney was notified, while, according to them, they awaited blood work results until April.
The statement implied that the TPD had reason to interview Winston's roommate and collect Winston's DNA -- facts that have not been established.
Entire article can be viewed here:
http://www.tomahawknation.com/2013/...ation-report-says-family-claims-tpd-detective
It seems to me that TN is viewing this through a VERY cynical lens towards the victim and is covering this VERY subjectively.